Breaking Patterns

When it comes down to it, generating change is all about breaking patterns; breaking cognitive and behavioral patterns ingrained in your life that you’d never bothered replacing.. until now. Let’s start with what it means to break patterns. Behavioral...

Self-Sabotage: an Urban Myth?

We’re all guilty of using self-sabotage as an excuse as to why we don’t seem to meet the goals we set, or why we always get in the way of ourselves. Whenever we have particular feelings, thoughts, or actions that come up and create barriers to meeting our...

The Map is Not the Territory

Your map is not the territory. This is a brilliant phrase coined by Alfred Korzybski back in the 30’s and describes the human condition quite clearly. As human beings, we are confined to the constraints of both our experiences and words. That is, our...

Rethinking What It Means to Be Masculine

Masculinity. Aggressiveness, ambition, competitive, athletic, independent, willing to take a stand. Femininity. Sensitive, friendly, cheerful, gentle, compassionate, gullible, shy, soft-spoken. These are culturally built norms surrounding how we think about our gender...

7 Layers Deep

One of the easiest and most fun things to do (but often looked) in life is gaining clarity. Clarity around your identity and purpose is the most fascinating thing to learn in this world.  When you have laser focus on your life goals and everything around you, life...

Self-Regulation Made Easy

It’s that time of year to talk about making plans for change. If you want to make changes, you’ll have to figure out where you are. That means assessing your score on not just how far you’ve come, but where you can use a little more attention. Usually when we think...

Self-Reflection for Growth

The end of 2017 is quickly approaching around the corner . I can’t help but think, what have you done so far to really make use of this time? We make such a huge deal about coming up with lofty New Years Resolutions around this time, but many forget that the...

Develop Identity with Intention

“The devil whispered in my ear, ‘You’re not strong enough to withstand the storm.’ I whispered in the Devil’s ear, ‘I am the storm.'” When I heard this particular mantra and incantation come through my headphones, it sent...